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The Erospirituality Centre

 Decolonizing Somatics: This is a queer-affirming erospiritual learning and healing centre committed to the integration of our erotic intelligence with our erotic embodiment informed by the indigenous healing arts and erosomatic practices from Continental and Diasporic African, Indigenous Turtle Islanders, Latine, East Asian, and South Asian and Pacific cultures.

 Personal Healing Intensive & Professional Learning Intensives

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 INTENSIVES

Learn how to confidently and safely integrate sexuality and somatics into your healing practices with the HTES' intensives. HTES's offerings include theses AASECT CE-eligible signature erotic liberation personal healing intensive, Healing the Erotic Self (HTES), and the erotic liberation professional development intensive, Sexuality & Somatics, in addition to, the erotic embodiment healing intensive for personal and professional expansion, Authentic Consent.

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 COACHING

Develop your erotic self-assurance in love and life with Mx. Queen's integrative WHOLE-Self coaching approach of erotic embodiment. Erotic embodiment coaching allows for personal and professional embodied learning to support processing erotic lessons and erotic insights, developing somatic intelligence, and creating erosomatic strategies for healing and growth. Experience this approach in one of the HTES' Masterclasses.

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 COMMUNITY

Learn to curate the relationships you desire. Decolonizing somatics is both a self-process and a collective process. You are not alone. Providing the erotic embodiment learning opportunities like the masterclasses Erotic Intelligence & 7 Principles, in addition to, a membership community filled with erosomatic and erospiritual resources, member only healing sessions, and peer supervision, this sacred sexuality space has been curated to offer room for erotic curiosity to be the GPS our erotic liberation. 

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HELLO THERE! 

I'm Mx. Queen

And Within My Authentic Purpose Is The Desire To Support Your Erotic Liberation Journey

 

Professional Use of the Self: Erotic Liberation

A True Story

My relationship to healing has always been BOTH/AND

I mean-

My personal self AND my professional self,

My spiritual self and my sexual self,

My emotional and my dissociative self,

My colonized self and my decolonizing self,

My vanilla self and my kinky self,

Can you tell I might be a switch?  A joke aside, in our current societal and global state of chaos, we need deliberate ways of healing and being that honor our stages of being and healing- crisis, surviving, and thriving. Personally, and professionally, I have always desired to ways to help myself, my loved ones, my lovers, and my clients. Little did I know what it would mean for me to embark on this journey, I now call erotic liberation.

 At the heart of erotic liberation lies a radical truth: our erotic energy is not only sexual but spiritual, somatic, and intuitive. The erotic is the energy of our desires- sexual & non-sexual, energetic, and spiritual. This is the energy force that informs our discerning desires, powers our joy, fuels our creativity, and affirms our inherent worth. For those of us healing from trauma, the impact of marginalization, and historical and contemporary cultural and embodied disconnection, reclaiming this energetic connection to one’s WHOLENESS is not indulgence—it is essential care and it is erotic.

Erotic Liberation is a radical, embodied state of being where one’s erotic energy—sexual, spiritual, somatic, and intuitive—is reclaimed as a sacred source of truth, power, and care. It is the life force of our discerning desires, the pulse of our joy, the root of our creativity, and the mirror of our inherent worth.

For those healing from trauma, marginalization, and disconnection from body, culture, and spirit, Erotic Liberation is not indulgence—it is essential. It is a return to WHOLENESS.

Erotic Liberation is not a destination but a practice of presence—a continual choosing of self-love, self-trust, and self-permission. It is the embodied experience of being at home within oneself, of listening deeply to one’s desires, and responding with nourishing, affirming care. To be erotically liberated is to live in alignment with your authentic truth, to experience pleasure as healing, and to love yourself into your fullest becoming. This gives us capacity for what we love and who we love-starting with Self first.

Academia sanitizes the erotic.

 

From my years in both my personal practices with my "professional" integration, I was frustrated to only be " Other Considerations" in academia with no seemingly accessible path to developing interventions and practices that affirmed me sexually, energetically, and spiritually. I create Healing the Erotic Self and it's offerings like The Other EQ: Erotic Intelligence Masterclass to center Black queer and trans erotic experiences while affirming the Global Majority of Black, African, Carribean, Indigenous Turtle Islanders, Latine, Asian American, and Pacific Islanders, and our now evidence-proving ancestral healing practices with queer-affirming, healing-centered, erotic-informed embodied and collective liberation for not only our sexual healing but also for our spiritual healing.

After 23 years of being a trauma-responsive integrative somatic psychotherapist, an embodied wellness coach, and almost 10 of those years as a clinical somatic sexologist, I did just that. have created the Erospirituality Centre and Erospirituality.com as an online learning space and erotic healing community of my erotic coaching practice, Healing the Erotic Self Life Coaching Program for healing and helping professionals while centering marginalized erotic lived experience of Black queer and trans folks.

In this sacred healing space, you will experience liberatory intensives, erotic embodiment masterclasses, and erospiritual community with events that are the perfect invitation to deepen your erotic connection to your mind, body, spirit, and energy. This healing space provides healing opportunities for personal and professional growth. Discover neuroscience approaches to healing sexual trauma with somatic and erosomatic practices, the importance of spirituality within our erotic embodiment, and explore affirming ways to decolonize sexuality and healing.

Erospirituality Centre's offerings are eligible for continuing education credits as I am a continuing education provider of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, & Therapists (AASECT). CE Provider # 25-0611-LQ

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HEALING YOUR EROTIC ENERGY: 7-Day Energy Practice

Discover embodied insights and erosomatic tools to create a foundation to empowered erotic embodiment with this 7-Day energy healing guide.

This guide was created by somatic sex therapy and erotic embodiment coach, not to be replace with medical advice. As with all healing practices, when applicable, seek medical advice prior to beginning practice.

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CONTACT

I’m based on the US East Coast and available for collaborations, speaking, intensives, and travel worldwide.

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