Mx. Lena Queen, LCSW, M.Ed.
Helping leaders, healers, and trauma survivors reclaim their wholeness through the power of Erotic Intelligence.
Biography
Mx. Lena Queen (Queen/they) is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Clinical Somatic Sexologist, and the founder of Erospirituality.com — an Integrative Somatic Sexological Healing and Professional Learning Institute rooted in the decolonial sacred fusion of sexuality and spirituality. Featured in Essence, them., and Verywell Mind, Mx. Queen brings a rare convergence of clinical rigor and ancestral wisdom to every platform.
Drawing from their personal journey — from surviving a mental health crisis in 2021 to embodying erotic liberation — Mx. Queen's work centers a revolutionary belief: we are meant to live whole and pleasurably. Through their signature frameworks — The Other EQ (Erotic Intelligence) and Erosomatic healing practices — they guide QTBIPOC communities, healing professionals, and corporate leaders to reclaim their erotic energy as a divine compass for life, love, and leadership.
We Need a WHOLENESS POV
Burnout prevention cannot succeed in systems designed for perpetual exhaustion—without restoring our capacity for ourselves, each other, our relationships, communal care, desire, and pleasure.
This is the work of embodied intelligence.
In a world that prioritizes productivity over presence, I support therapists, educators, coaches, leaders, and organizations to build sustainable capacity by integrating somatic, emotional, and erotic intelligence into professional and personal life.
My work helps individuals and organizations to:
- Develop somatically safer ways of examining and unlearning internalized sexuality, gender, and relational biases
• Address empathy fatigue and burnout by restoring emotional, mental, and nervous-system capacity
• Support post-burnout recovery through trauma-informed somatic and erosomatic care practices
• Cultivate embodied safety, self-trust, and intuitive relationship-building and repair
• Increase the capacity to love what we do—and love who we love—well
With over 22 years of experience in personal healing, professional development, public speaking, training, and writing, I serve as the founder of Erospirituality Centre, a nonprofit offering trauma-informed, pleasure-affirming, and healing-centered professional learning intensives.
"We are not on this earth just for the use of our labor. Erotic energy is life force — a divine GPS guiding us back to wholeness, purpose, and love."
Why Work With Me?
Given the current state of LGBTQIA+ healthcare inequity and limited access to affirming services for the Global Majority, we need a paradigm shift.
Research in neuroscience, trauma recovery, and provider burnout shows that capacity building is integrative—mind, body, energy, and spirit. Sustainable, ethical care requires more than cognitive or behavioral strategies alone; it requires the wisdom of the body.
Embodied intelligence—the integration of emotional intelligence, somatic intelligence, and erotic intelligence—is essential to:
- Provider well-being
- Burnout prevention and recovery
- Ethical, affirming, and equitable healthcare delivery
Professional capacity building is not a luxury or optional add-on.
It is an ethical imperative.
SHIFT: Developing a Presence Practice
This 101 somatic presentation delivers neuroscience-backed somatic tools for emotional regulation, self-trust, and navigating high-stakes transitions with resilience.
The Other EQ: Erotic Intelligence in Leadership & Service
This 201 presentation for those noviced and seasoned in leadership styles. Reframe "erotic" as the life force behind visionary leadership — desire, creativity, and embodied discernment as strategic tools.
Healing the Erotic Self: Decolonizing Desire
This 301 experiential presentation introduces a somatic-spiritual sexological worldview that explores the concept of recovery and healing, and how wholeness is perceived in personal and professional relationships , challenging the defaults of desirability politics.
Authentic Consent: The 7 Principles that Impact Survivors Accessing Choice & Voice
Erospirituality: Expanding Our Understanding of Sexuality & Somatics in Comprehensive Sexuality Education for Embodied Liberation
This 201 experiential workshop introduces Erospirituality-an integrative, decolonial approach to comprehensive sexuality education (CSE) that bridges sexuality, spirituality, and somatics forembodied liberation.
Erospirituality: Using Erotic Intelligence to Decolonize Spirituality, Sexuality, & the Intuitive Mind–Body Relationship
This 301 presentation and the paper that follows introduce Erospirituality, an integrative somatic sexological framework that is liberation-centered, pleasure-affirming,
decolonial approach to healing that
integrates somatic sexology, comprehensive sexuality education (CSE), and trauma-informed healing arts
and practices the Global Majority to support embodied wellness—especially for people navigating burnout, exhaustion, sexual distress, trauma, and “defaults” of desirability politics around desire, gender, power, and spirituality.
