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HTES Self-Paced

Trauma-Informed Healing Systems: 

Reclaim Your Erotic Self

Eroticism is the expression of the Divine.

Centering the Black erotically lived experience, Healing The Erotic Self™ (HTES) offers trauma-informed self-paced erotic healing systems designed to help queer and non-queer, cis and trans professionals who also may be neurodivergent, and trauma-surviving adults reclaim embodied safety, spirituality, eroticism, and self-trust.

These proven somatic and energy-based systems support survivors, seekers, and sacred disruptors in reclaiming their intuition, pleasure, self-trust, and embodied regulation.

Healing the Erotic Self presents

HTES Self-Paced Healing Systems

Each trauma-informed HTES Erotic Healing System blends:

  • Somatic & Erosomatic practices 
  • Guided meditations & audio activations
  •  Erotic affirmation journaling & integrative mind-body care plan templates
  •  Ancestral and body-based erotic intelligence practices

HTES isn’t a self-help trend—it’s an erotic reclamation rooted in neuroscience, ancestral knowing, and decolonial healing. These systems with step-by-step instructions are designed to support your nervous system, regulate your emotional patterns, and empower your intuitive erotic wisdom.

You don't have to figure out how.

You just have to choose which plan you want to begin with.

Gentle reminder:
You were never broken. You were disconnected from your WHOLENESS.

HEY 

Let's IMAGINE

Again...

What if you had the capacity to both do what you love and love who you are—without burnout, shame, or disconnection?

What if your work and relationships were fueled by embodied confidence, pleasure, and self-trust?

What if you remembered that the erotic is not just sexual—it’s sacredspiritual, and sovereign?


This is

Embodied Intelligence

Developed by Mx. Lena Queen, LCSW, M.Ed., Clinical Somatic Sexologist & Founder of Healing the Erotic Self™, Embodied Intelligence™ is a revolutionary embodied integration of your emotional, somatic, and erotic intelligences.

Rooted in 20+ years of trauma-informed, liberation-centered healing, HTES supports healing-centered leaders, educators, and healing professionals—especially those who are Black, queer, femme, trans, and/or neurodivergent—in reclaiming their erotic aliveness as the foundation of leadership, self-care, and spiritual practice.

This isn't just self-care.
This is a return to your sacred erotic self-

Soul Care.


The Need Has Never Been Greater

 According to the APA (2023), 92% of workers say it’s important to work for an organization that values their psychological and emotional well-being.
At one of my favorite Black femme-led conferences like Sex Down South, 90% of attendees (mostly Black, femme, LGBTQ+, and highly educated) seek mental health + sensual wellness services that honor their full erotic selves.

In a world scaling back wellness, I am scaling it up—and making it erotic.


Introducing the HTES Trauma-Informed Self-Paced Healing Systems

Each trauma-informed HTES Erotic Healing System is a healing-centered, sacred system of care and ritual-based embodied care practice, guiding you through your unique erotic liberation journey—personally and professionally.


1) SHIFT: Somatic Healing Integration System

For developing a more self-compassionate and regulated presence practice informed by neuroscience, somatic healing, and reclaiming embodied safety.
Includes: meditation, reflection workbook, and body-awareness rituals


2) HYER: Healing Your Erotic Energy System

For activating erotic energy, breathwork, and sacred self-trust
Includes:
✔ HYER Energy Guidebook
✔ Erotic Affirmations Journal
✔ Breathwork & Healing Meditations
✔ In My Healing™ Care Plan
✔ Erotic Alchemy™ Erosomatic Practice

 "Eroticism is the expression of the Divine."

– Mx. Lena Queen


3) Erotic Living: WHOLE-Self Liberation System

For integrating eros into daily life, identity, and relationships
Includes:
✔ HTES Erotic Living Workbook
✔ Guided Somatic Meditations
✔ Affirmation Journal
✔ Daily Practices for Pleasure & Self-Worth


 Who It’s For:

  • The Global Majority (BCAILAAPI)

  • Queer & Trans Adults reclaiming sexuality + spirituality

  •  Trauma Survivors

  • Wellness Leaders unlearning erotic shame

  • Coaches, Therapists & Educators, & Somatic Professionals cultivating erosomatic leadership

    Anyone ready to return to their deepest erotic self and live from that truth


What You’ll Receive:

✅ Lifetime access to erospiritual rituals and erosomatic tools
✅ Step-by-step start guides
✅ Downloadable PDFs, audios & reflection prompts
✅ The support of a proven system backed by clinical somatic sexology
✅ Pathways to expanded support, erotic intelligence masterclasses, erotic healing intensives, and erotic coaching- if desired...bc authentic consent exists


Are You Ready to Become Erotically Liberated?

Whether you’re here as a professional, a survivor, or both—HTES welcomes you home to your erotic truth.

This is your invitation to move from survival to sovereignty—with pleasure, with presence, and with power- with the erotic, the home of your discerning desires.

SHIFT Somatic Healing: An Integrative System of Self-Care

Rooted in neuroscience, embodied intelligence, and energy healing, this 4-part care framework helps you regulate your emotions, reprogram negative self-talk, and create safety within your body and empower your relationship to self-trust —one breath, one choice, one presence practice at a time. This system includes the new and extended version of SHIFT Guide & the holistic detox plan, The Fresh Start.

Instructions to implement are included.

Start your SHIFT – Cultivate embodied self-trust ($27)”

HYER Energy Healing: HTES' Erotic Energy Activation Care System

Whether you’re a spiritual seeker, energy-sensitive healer, or pleasure activist, HYER offers a soul-nourishing path to energy healing through erotic alchemy and ancestral embodiment. Based off the HTES energy healing guide, Healing Your Erotic Energy, this system includes HYER guide, Erotic Alchemy Erosomatic Practice, and HYER meditations. 

Instructions to implement are included.

Energetically clear and align your erotic energy. Yes, I am READY! ($47)

Erotic Living: Whole-Self Liberation System of Care

This erotic living healing system is the complete package that invites you to reclaim your intuition, your desires, and your erotic power as essential tools for personal & collective liberation in everyday living. This system of care includes the SHIFT and HYER system, in addition to, HTES signature workbooks, Healing the Erotic Self, and #InMyHealing Erotic Affirmations Journal-which made Amazon top 200 books in sacred sexuality. Instructions to implement are included.

This complete system offers a 20% savings. 

I am ALL IN-Grounded- Ready to be Erotic & Liberated! ($97)

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CONTACT

I’m based on the US East Coast and available for collaborations, speaking, intensives, and travel worldwide.

[email protected]
IG:HealingtheEroticSelf

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