Mx. Lena Queen
LCSW · M.Ed. · AASECT CE Provider · TEDx Speaker
Integrative Somatic Sexologist · Founder, Erospirituality Centre · Creator, The Womanism Way™
As seen in: ESSENCE · Them · Verywell Mind · Daye · TEDx
"Erotic energy is your life force — a divine GPS guiding us back to wholeness, connection, pleasure, and love."
The SistaSexologist
Mx. Lena Queen, LCSW, M.Ed.
Founder, Erospirituality Centre
Mx. Lena Queen, LCSW, M.Ed. (Queen/they/she) is a clinical integrative somatic sexologist, TEDx speaker, AASECT-approved CE provider, and founder of the Erospirituality Centre — a 501(c)(3) non-profit advancing erotic intelligence and somatic healing. Creator of The Womanism Way™ and the Healing the Erotic Self™ framework, Queen is a nationally recognized voice for erotic liberation, decolonial healing justice, and LGBTQIA+ wellness with 22+ years of clinical experience. Featured in Them, ESSENCE, and Verywell Mind.
Featured by Them magazine as "the Sista Sexologist bringing Audre Lorde to your bedroom," Mx. Lena Queen, LCSW, M.Ed. is a clinical integrative somatic sexologist, trauma-informed psychotherapist, TEDx speaker, author, AASECT Continuing Education provider, and founder of the Erospirituality Centre — a 501(c)(3) non-profit advancing integrative somatic sexuality and erotic intelligence.
A queer, agender, genderqueer Black person with 22+ years of clinical experience, Queen is the originator of Erospirituality™ as a healing praxis and creator of The Womanism Way™ — a decolonial, justice-centered methodology weaving Audre Lorde's erotic wisdom with integrative somatic psychology, neuroplasticity, energy medicine, and ancestral healing rooted in the Global Majority.
Through keynotes, CE-eligible professional trainings, healing intensives, and transformative experiences, Queen equips therapists, educators, somatic professionals, healthcare providers, and community leaders with practical frameworks for erotic intelligence, embodied self-trust, and whole-person well-being — centering Black queer and trans lived experience at the heart of the work.
- LCSW · M.Ed. · Integrative Somatic Sex Therapist
- AASECT-Approved Continuing Education Provider
- TEDx Speaker · 22+ Years Clinical Experience
- Founder, Erospirituality Centre — 501(c)(3) Non-Profit
- Originator of Erospirituality™ · Creator, The Womanism Way™
- Creator, Healing the Erotic Self™ & EIC Certification™
- Featured: ESSENCE · Them · Verywell Mind · Daye
- Phone: 302.468.7238 · IG: @healingtheeroticself
"The Sista Sexologist bringing Audre Lorde to your bedroom."
— Them Magazine profile headline
"The Erotic Self is the intuitive relationship between one's mind, body, and spirit. It is the embodiment of all of who we are, both sexually and nonsexually."
— Mx. Lena Queen, on defining the erotic self
"As survivors, we can move from this place of disempowerment to a place of power [when] healing becomes rooted in what we want to experience, what we desire to experience, which has this spiritual, soulful connection."
— Mx. Lena Queen, on the spectrum from sexual distress to erotic liberation
"Talk lovingly to yourself. Talk compassionately to yourself… for us to take back our dialog and to pour that back into ourselves, is honestly one of the most powerful things that we can do."
— Mx. Lena Queen, on erotic affirmations and self-compassion
"Know that you are love. See yourself as the source of the thing that you want, and therefore, who are you sharing it with? Who deserves it?"
— Mx. Lena Queen, on navigating dating and self-definition
The Womanism Way™
Erospirituality™ is the healing praxis. The Womanism Way™ is the justice-centered methodology within it — a decolonial approach to comprehensive sexuality education that bridges sexuality, spirituality, and somatics for the reclamation of the erotic self.
WHOLENESS
The pleasure-affirming sexological worldview — "What's your Pleasure-Lineage?" The model that decolonizes sexuality education and the field of sexology.
The 6 Erotic Needs™
The assessment model. Locate where erotic disconnection lives, and restore safety, self-trust, and desire in sequence.
I-SST™
Integrative Somatic Sex Therapy — the clinical spine: decolonial, trauma-informed, kink-aware, and pleasure-affirming.
SHIFT™
A repeatable somatic process for moving out of shutdown and back into sensation, presence, and embodied aliveness.
HYER™
The energetic embodiment practice anchoring erotic aliveness in the body — a daily ritual for erotic living.
Erotic Intelligence Coaching™
The 20-week erotic liberation coaching experience — with certification pathway for coaches and clinicians.
Flagship Offerings
Healing the Erotic Self:
An Erotic Intelligence Workbook
The foundational entry point into erotic intelligence. A guided workbook for reconnecting with pleasure, rebuilding body trust, and beginning whole-self healing through somatic awareness, body-based exercises, and liberation practices.
Buy on Bookshop.org · ISBN 978-1-7364800-4-5 →Healing the Erotic Self™:
6-Week Erotic Healing Intensive
The flagship live cohort program — the guided 6-week journey through the Womanism Way™ in full: somatic healing, erotic intelligence activation, nervous system regulation, and embodied liberation for deep, sustained whole-self transformation.
Enroll at erospirituality.com →Download the Speaker One-Pager
Bio, credentials, flagship offerings, speaking topics, and contact — one print-ready PDF.
Start Where You Are
The Other EQ
$29.99The signature course on erotic intelligence — your entry into the Womanism Way™.
Erotic Living
$197A self-study path turning erotic liberation into a sustainable daily practice.
HTES™ 6-Week Intensive
$997The complete Womanism Way™ experience. Live cohort, 6 weeks, transformational.
Sexuality & Somatics Series
CustomCE-eligible professional learning for therapists, counselors & somatic professionals.
EIC Certification™
ApplyErotic Intelligence Coaching Certification — the 20-week practitioner pathway.
SHIFT Embodied Wellness
CustomBurnout recovery, trauma-informed leadership & nervous system regulation for organizations.
Keynotes & CE-Eligible Series
Sized for a conference stage, leadership retreat, or multi-session professional learning intensive. CE-eligible formats available. A real person reads every booking request.
201 · Leadership
The Other EQ: Erotic Intelligence in Leadership & Service
Reframes the erotic as the life force behind visionary leadership — desire, creativity, and embodied discernment as strategic tools.
Great for leadership retreats & executive teams
201 · Somatic Series
SHIFT: Embodied IQ Series
Integrative somatic workshops delivering neuroscience-backed tools for emotional regulation, self-trust, and relationship repair.
For college students, first-line staff & administrators
101 · Survivor-Centered
Authentic Consent: The 7 Principles
A trauma-informed journey through embodied safety, self-compassion, and boundaries — how survivors access choice and voice.
Foundational & widely accessible · Title IX
201 · Experiential
Erospirituality & Embodied Liberation
An experiential workshop introducing Erospirituality — bridging sexuality, spirituality, and somatics for erotic reclamation.
For somatic & sexuality educators
Let's Build Capacity Together
Available for keynotes, CE trainings, campus workshops, podcast interviews, media features, and organizational consulting — nationwide and globally.
Phone
302.468.7238
Website
erospirituality.com
Speaking
LenaQueenSpeaks.com
@healingtheeroticself
Substack
The Other EQ